Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Etty & Pertauliahan

Yap...now my little sister is a policewoman...konstable Wan Noorhayati...cewahh...
Cita-cita dari kecik...
Yesterday me, hubby, mami, emmy & her latest boyfriend pi Pertauliahan Etty...I can see my mum's eyes...watery...must be bangga..at last semua anak dia dah kerja....
Luckily it was not a very hot day...but still berpeluh la...still ada 2-3 org pelatih yg tumbang dalam baris... :)




































Walaupon hanya sekadar konstabel, but i'm still proud of her..she has always be the tough one in the family...
Aku suh dia p sambung belajar lagi..baru la can make her way up the career ladder...insya allah...

Kebetulan plak Emmy punya birthday jatuh on the same day... 29th August..So at the same time tu celebrate sekali la...
yang ni sorang lagi....belajar tak tinggi gak...tapi alhamdullilah dah dapat kerja kat fast food restaurant...she's happy with her way of life...janji dah tak nyusahkan mami lagi cukupla...janji boleh bela diri sendiri...skang ni she's 19...tu pon dah sibuk nak kawin...gatai....tapi mami suh kawin cepat-cepat...malas nak pikir..ye la..yg ni sorang ni "naughty" skit...kan merajuk lari umah plak kang..sapa susah???aku la jugak.... :)

Skang ni mami dah pencen & anak-anak semua dah berdikari...alhamdullillah...sedih bila kenang balik how hard for mami to raise us bertiga sesorang...berkat sabar mami...

10 Ways to Boost your Baby’s Brain Power

Baby Brain Work Outs

Just like how your muscles will not develop if you do not exercise, your baby’s brain will not develop to its fullest if you don’t help her ‘exercise her mind?

Stimulus for your baby can be positive or negative. Positive stimuli build the brain and enhance learning whereas negative stimuli could be damaging. Negative stimulus can mean exposure to violence, stressful events and neglect. So start by providing a warm and loving environment for your baby.

Learn 10 Ways to Bolster Your Baby’s Brain Power:

1) Love

Love and affection are very real needs to your baby especially in the early weeks and months. Your baby is not trying to manipulate or control you; she simply has a biological need for your love. You cannot ‘spoil?a baby by responding to her cries.

Consistent response to her cries will build trust and create a strong self-esteem. She will be assured that her needs are met and not get stressed, while learning about love and forming human relationships. If a baby is denied attention in the early weeks and months, she may grow up introverted and withdrawn.

Things to Do: Always respond to your baby’s cries by soothing her with your touch and your voice instead of leaving her to cry on her own.

2) Chat

Talk to your baby, not with senseless gibberish but speak properly in a kind and gentle voice. Mum’s voice is her favourite sound?she’s been hearing it since she was a 5-month old foetus.

Things to Do: Use the language you are most proficient in and use a wide range of vocabulary. Never underestimate the learning abilities of a young baby. Your baby will also enjoy communicating with you when you exaggerate your expressions.

3) Touch

Touch is a powerful stimulant and learning tool. It also has a remarkable calming effect on babies. It was reported that premature babies who were massaged grew faster, were less fretful and were discharged from hospital much faster than those who were not.

Things to Do: Hold her close during feeding and cuddle her often. After your baby’s bath, give her a gentle massage all over her body, singing and talking to her while you are at it. You will enjoy this special moment with her.

4) Mimic

Your baby is interested in looking at your face. Even as a newborn, she is constantly analysing your face. She may imitate facial expressions such as smiles and frowns.

Things to Do: Encourage your baby to imitate you. Hold your face about 8 inches away and make faces such as sticking out your tongue. Before you know it, your new born will stick out her tongue at you too!

5) Experience

The more diverse the experience you offer your baby, the more stimulated mentally she will be. Let your baby experience lots of different surroundings.

Things to do: Go out for walks and take her to different places like the supermarket, playgrounds and malls. Expose her to different sights and sounds.

Things to avoid:Put your baby in front of the television hours on end; this does not stimulate her. She needs real experiences and not virtual ones!

6) Explore

Provide a safe environment for your baby to explore, such as the living room floor. She will need lots of space to discover things on her own.

Things to Do: Place dangerous objects out of reach, cap all electrical outlets and pad sharp corners on furniture. Provide lots of safe and appropriate toys.

7) Read

Start reading to your baby right from young. She may not be able to follow the story but she will enjoy listening to your voice and looking at pictures.

Things to do: Use interactive books with pop-up pictures or those that allows tactile stimulation, example different textures within books for your baby to touch.

8) Music

Singing and playing music to your baby even before birth has shown to be beneficial to a baby’s brain development. Generally, music that has a constant rhythm is best. Mozart’s music has been found to stimulate the same neurons that are later used for mathematics.

Things to do: Make up tunes and silly or funny songs as a great way of having fun with your baby. Use a musical box or recorded music to create a quiet mood for feedings, and an upbeat one for playtime.

9) Play

Play is fun; play is work ?that’s how your baby can learn while enjoying herself! When you play with your baby, you are helping her develop more than you realise.

Things to do: Use high contrast graphics (e.g. flashcards) that help to increase your baby’s concentration skills and attention span. Explain the colours or pictures to her as she studies them.

Finger play with your baby right from the start to help her develop the ability to ‘ignore?her reflexive ‘palmar grasp?(the ability to fold fingers over palm of hand to hold objects well with hand). Your baby can only learn how to use her hands and fingers if she learns to ‘let go? By playing finger games, she is learning language and fine motor skills.

Gently guide your baby’s arm to ‘bat-a-mobile? Alternate the use of each arm. Smile and describe to your baby how the mobile is moving. Praise her for making the mobile move. This game teaches her about ‘cause and effect?as well as trains her visual tracking skills.

10) Praise

Shower your baby with positive encouragement for every correct response she gives. Build her self-esteem by allowing her to explore and learn.

Things to do: Encourage her to overcome new challenges by constantly telling her that she can do it. Pay attention to her efforts and give her credit for her achievements


This is an articel i read in youngnutrition.net

Monday, August 14, 2006

Santau???

I've just came back from Setiawan (rumah ibu mertuaku)... Balik berurut...dah tiga bulan tak urut...lagipon pinggang & pangkal peha dah sengal-sengal coz zafran suka kalu nak tido nak suh dukung dia sampai la dia KO..as usual bila balik kampung ni la masa nak makan yg best-best....

To my surprise...mama cakap "org kat sini dah kurang makan kat luar"... apasal??? dah ada a few kes org kena santau angin...Restoran Bawah Pokok pon affected...usually kalu lunch hour tu ramai giler org...sampai depan umah mama pon ada org park keter...now....boleh bilang...
I'm not a true believer in such a thing...tapi mama cakap kat kedai tu ada sorang yg lepas makan immediately muntah darah...

malam ahad tu pusing-pusing manjung...food court yg selalu ramai org cam Uncle Zam (adik kembar Uncle Don???) pon boleh lengang...kat situ lagi best...mama cakap ada yg sampai meninggal...

masa berurut tu ada la sembang ngan makcik ni...saja nak korek citer...makcik ni pon belah pagi niaga nasi lemak...tanya la dia betul ke & kenapa jadi camtu...
yg dia tahu org yg buat santau ni marah kat org yg pakai uniform...asalnya navy...pastu habis semua termasuk la org Majlis perbandaran...funny kan?? Kenapa la nak penaya org...kalu marah kat org tu...attack jer la dia...buat per nak jadikan org lain yg tak berdosa yg "tiada kaitan dengan ini filem" mangsa gak...masa ni aku rasa bersyukur sangat FZ laki si Ayu dah transfer balik KL....

Nak jadi lagi best...kedai makan cina atau india tak kena...ni memang kes melayu nak bunuh melayu ni...tak ke bodoh...last-last cina ngan india yg buat duit...ye la org dah takut nak makan kedai melayu...ni la mentality org melayu kita...bukan nak tolong sesama melayu...nak peranapkan lagi ada la...Ni remind me of masa kitorang memula bukak kedai dobi dulu...

Area UK Perdana tu semua competitornya melayu...ada satu kedai ni customer dia ramai gile la..sampai tak menang tangan nak terima order gosok...masa tu kami baru nak establish customer base...mmg tough time...ingatkan bila dia tak mampu tu dia nak la recommend kedai kami...hampeh...mmg melayu totok punya stail berniaga...lain betul kalu compare ngan cina...dulu masa kami belum ada laundrete sendiri selalu la antar cuci & gosok kat kedai kat Bkt Antarabangsa tu...bezanya kat situ competitor semua cina...satu hari tu (kalu tak silap dah dekat nak raya)..aku nak hantar gosok...cina tu tak sanggup coz dah banyak sangat..tau dia cakap apa.??? "lu boleh hantar kedai depan sana ka??saya banyak sangat la...takut nanti tak sempat siap..."

ntah la kenapa org melayu ni kuat sungguh rasa iri hati & dengki ni...tak paham aku...
nanti ari lain plak aku citer nape aku suka pakai kontraktor cina...bukan tak nak tolong melayu tapi melayu yg tak nak tolong diri dia sendiri....

Friday, August 11, 2006

Lagi gambo zafran...

Gambar-gambar ni taken masa mami datang KL untuk attend Majlis Jasamu Dikenang... (appreciation event for TM retirees) on 25th July 2006..






Ni plak gambar-gambar dia a week before that...betul la org cakap bila first born ni kemaruk nak tangkap gambar dia jer....




aku tak sure org lain ...tapi aku ni "keciwi"...everyday eager nak balik...nak tgk anak aku...agaknya apa la yg dia develop hari ni...rasa cam lambatnya dia nak besar...nak pandai react balik kalu kita main ngan dia...skang ni dia dah pandai "bersembang" (in his jibberish language la)...masa dia gelak tu rasa bestnya...teringat masa dulu-dulu...suke benor nak "keromok" baby...the same goes now...time dia dok buat muke cute tu...mmg geram giler la...

pepagi masa nak tinggal dia kat baby sitter...kesian tgk dia..kekadang rasa cam dia dok buat muke seposen jer...kalu ptg time busy aku akan terlajak amik dia..kekadang nearly 8 baru nak amik...dia cam merajuk jer...tak nak main & start being grumpy...nak tido...baby sitter dia pernah cakap dia ni kalu lambat amik, kul 6.30ptg mula la meragam...agaknya biological clock dia dah set coz kalu takde benda 6.30 aku akan amik dia...hari-hari yg lambat tu rasa guilty giler kat dia...pernah satu hari aku MC, hubby p hantar dia kat baby sitter coz nak aku rehat...so petang tu aku p la awal skit amik dia...dia punya la suke...siap senyum-senyum & "sembang" lagi...

skang ni kalu dapat instruction kena stay back atau dengar rumour kena p out station aku dah down dah...serabut pikir camne nak tinggal dia...rindu satu hal...breast feeding satu hal lagi... kesian dia...


Thursday, August 10, 2006

Muhamad Amir Zafran - One Week...









For the first time in my life aku merasa apa yg selalu mami cakap kat aku
"Kau tak jadi mak lagi...nantu tahu la nanti camne susahnya nak jaga anak sorang..."

Masa dalam pantang 40 hari tu ada mama & mami yg tolong...zafran berjaga pon aku still tak penat sangat coz lepas bagi susu..biasanya diorang amik & tidurkan...
After confinement aku balik KL...dok sesorang...masa tu cam nak nangis pon ada...pasal tak tido malam aku boleh tahan lagi...tapi zafran jenis tak tido siang...dia bangun kul 12 noon...nak tido balik kang lepas asar...sampai la skang cam tu...cuma yg buat aku stress masa tu ialah camne nak semayang...masa dlm nifas tak tensen la...once kering tu..nak semayang tensen giler...ada satu hari tu aku letak jer dia dalam baby cot dia...nak buat camne...aku tunggu sampai kul 4 lebih...dah nak asar dia tak tido gak...masa camtu really hope cepatla hubby balik...coz dah penat giler dah...infact masa 20 hari terakhir tu...i lost count on how many times hubby kena balik awal coz aku tak leh cope ngan zafran...

now being a mum myself...makes me appreciate my mum more than ever...

sapa nak tangkap gambar lawa cam gambar kat atas tu aku bleh recommend photographernya...


Sunday, August 6, 2006

Amir Zafran...Cukur Jambul...


3 Jun 2006

It has been a months after birth..Aku dah balik berpantang kat Kota Bharu since 2 weeks after delivery... Hari ni hari Cukur Jambul Zafran...Alhamdullilah dia behave masa org nak cukur jambul dia...

Zafran ni jenis rambut lebat..kuar-kuar perut dah boleh buat parting rambut...aku buat cukur jambul dia masa dia 30 hari...masa tu rambut dia dah lepas telinga...hubby cakap cam mat rock dah... cam girl pon ada gak...
Before..


During...


After...

A few days before majlis ni dia buat hal...menangis yg tak berenti...dari kul 12 mlm sampai kul 5 pagi...mami pon naik demam dibuatnya...sampai warded la mami...4 hari jugak la mami kat Kota Bharu Medical Center...guilty betul aku rasa ngan mami...

skang ni after 3 months baru la ok skit dia nyer nangis tu...kalu tak...tuhan ajer yg tahu...bile dia start nangis tu cam kena pukul...dah la suara high pitch...sampai aku ngan hubby tak tau nak buat apa dah...skang ni dah banyak berubah...dia hanya meragam bila nak tido jer...

to be continued...




Friday, August 4, 2006

Muhamad Amir Zafran - My first born

04/05/06 : 4.55pm
Merupakan detik perubahan dalam hidup aku dari seorang isteri menjadi seorang ibu...after 7 long hours dalam labour room, aku akhirnya ditolak masuk ke OT coz aku tak dilate...baru 4cm...kena go thru c-sect...guna GA plak tu...

Sedar-sedar dalam recovery room..first aku dengar suara hubby...alhamdullillah...selamat melahirkan baby boy...3.47kg...

Hubby looked distress..penat kot...tapi dia ada bisik "baby cam ada cleft yg dah sambung balik"...waktu aku
sedih sangat...i thought baby tu ada cleft lips...actually it's not a cleft...tapi cam dimple tapi kat atas bibir...alhamdullillah..
ni zafran masa kuar dari perut...lom mandi pon lagi...

Lebih kurang pukul 6.00pm baru aku for the first time dapat tengok muka anak aku...masa tu terharu yg tak dapat nak gambarkan...after 4 years tunggu...after berubat merata...akhirnya aku bergelar seorang ibu...tuhan jer yg tahu how happy i am...

Dari sebelum bersalin lagi aku dah berniat nak fully breastfeed dia...masa nurse tolak dia masuk dlm bilik & suh aku breastfeed..risau + sedih betul aku...ye la..org selalu cakap kalu ceasar susah nak breastfeed..alhamdullillah mami & mama were there to assist...lepas breastfeed for the 1st time tu...happy betul aku...alhamdullillah dia pon pandai latch...takder prob...
Kulit dia sensitif...cam kulit Babah dia...masa first mandi kat hospital tu diorang pakaikan losyen...habis badan dia naik rashes & merah-merah..cam udang kena bakar...kesian aku tengok...nak marah pon ada kat misi-misi ni...ada ke pakaikan losyen kat new born..nak marah pon tak leh..diorang bukan tau zafran ni jenis kulit sensitif...

4 hari kat Ampang Putri...masa nak discahrge..funny anak aku dah pandai senyum...mata sepet cam mata aku...

Alhamdullillah hari ke-4 aku dah boleh kuar...tu pon aku insist suh misi bukak salur kencing tu cepat-cepat...coz my gynae cakap lagi cepat aku boleh up & about lagi cepat aku boleh kuar...tu yg aku determine utk bangun dari katil on the 2nd day...

So aku spent about another 1 week kat KL before balik berurut kat Setiawan...since aku ni operate...takde lagi urut bebetul...just urut utk betulkan urat jer...

to be continued...